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Our
Torah portion this week begins this way, “And these are the names.” In
beginning the history of the Jewish people in Egypt, Torah recounts the
names of all the sons of Jacob, the heads of the tribes, who came into
Egypt with him. These names are from more than 3000 years ago.
Yet
four of them are still popular today in the United States: Dan, Joseph,
Benjamin, and Jacob. In fact, two of my children, whose English names are
Bryan and Janet, have named their sons Jacob and Benjamin. Two other
tribal names, Reuben and Shimon or Simon, are heard from time to time.
Among the rest of the tribal names two are still used today with only
minor changes- Yehudah, which is Judah or Judith, and Levi, which was the
name of Levi Strauss, the founder of Levis. My newest granddaughter bears
the Hebrew name Liviyah, a feminine form of Levi.
When we delve into our Torah, it is as if the distant past is only
yesterday. When we continue the names of our grandparents and
great-grandparents, the past lives into the future. The custom among
Ashkenazi Jews, from Europe and Asia, is to name their children after
relatives who have gone up to their heavenly reward. The custom among
Sephardi Jews, from Africa and the Arab lands, is to name them after
living relatives.
In
both cases, what is significant is that Jewish children carry on the life
mission of someone who is their elder. We are a people of history, and
passing on a name is the highest honor we can bestow on someone.
The
name does not have to be exact. It can just be the first initial, or it
can be a word that carries the same meaning. What is important is that the
intention to connect the two souls be present.
In
the Jewish book of wisdom sayings, Ethics of the Fathers, Rabbi Tarfon
said(II:21): it is not up to you to complete the work, but neither are you
free to neglect it. lo alecha hamlachah ligmor, v’lo atah ben horin
l’ibateyl memenah. There is no person who sees all his dreams to
completion in his lifetime. We all need a future generation to carry on
for us.
And
if we do not have biological children, well then, we can help and teach
our neighbor’s. Torah accounts the reward for doing so as great as if
they were our own.
When we do an act of chesed- of kindness and generosity, and we do
so because we have been inspired by those who came before us, our role
models, we bring Torah forward. May the names of those who came before us
always be for a blessing.
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