Parah Adumah:
Finding Meaning in the Red Heifer Practice
by Rabbi Goldie MilgramThere is an
important opportunity in the red heifer Torah portion.
In the background of news footage, we often see people collecting body
parts for preparation for burial; in Israel these are often trained burial
society volunteers, chevra kaddishah members.
Whether in Israel or elsewhere, so often, the people who come upon a
corpse are not immediate family with existing rituals to support them- the
social worker, nurse, at home caretaker, janitor, rabbi, police,
by-stander, etc. - all of these people take on the challenging experience
sometimes termed corpse contamination, the residual hard to shake feeling
from touching a dead body.
My experience is this kind of touching leaves a residue on the spirit that
is not easily transformed. When I do chevra kaddishah work I still
wish for a morning after ritual.
This week's Torah portion reflects an ancient understanding that it is
possible to honor the impact of corpse contamination and to help ease a
person's way with it. So our ancestors used a paste of ground red heifer
ashes to help someone marked by this experience to feel better; this works
in that sancta-based rituals can create an exponential increase in speed
of healing.
So even though we no longer have the red heifer (though the search
continues in some quarters), we do have the annual cycle of studying and
integrating its meaning for ourselves and then the aliyah to honor
this part of the Torah of living.
I have experimented with inviting up for an aliyah those who during
the entire year felt themselves to have had this kind of impurification
from direct corpse contact.
For those who have been in this condition, you know yourself immediately
to be included. It will have varying significance for people, from shock
to with exposure, desensitization, upon reflection having been through it
is significant to take honor, to take in.
When you chant the aliyah's opening blessing and behind you the community
responds, barukh adonai ham'vorakh l'olam va-ed, they can pray
these words with a kavannah of appreciation for the difficult role
you took on, intentionally or unintentionally...perhaps at the scene of an
accident where you stopped to help...perhaps it is normal to your job as
fireman, physician, undertaker, etc.
Look around during your aliyah, you will not be alone up there.
Thank you for taking on the consequences of sacred service. May you be
blessed for this experience to ultimately add to your appreciation of life
and the cycle of life.
What might be added or changed about this blessing or model?
Have others experimented with reclaiming meaning from the red heifer
ritual?
I'd love to hear from you.
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